Ladies (mainly college age): what do you suggest?

it definitely sounds to me that you're not looking in the right places for a girl. You seem pretty mature and laid back for your age, whereas most kids that are freshmen in college finally got out of mom and dad's house and are ready to party and be free. You don't sound like you fit in that group, you should probably look for girls that meet your interests. join clubs that interest you, or try to find activities around the school that you'd like to do. I guess what i'm trying to say is to find the right girl for you, you need to look in the right places