Girls, would you date a guy like this?

I have a friend who I've liked for a long time (years). I thought of her as a friend initially, she started to gradually like me more than that and asked me out. I declined because I felt like it wasn't what she really wanted. She wanted to hangout with me to see if it would change her mind, so we did and sure enough she then thought of me as a friend. However, I started to like her more than a friend after we hungout (we don't see each other in person much, was the 2nd time) and have liked her ever since that day about 1.5 years ago. Over time we argued more, mostly on our social opinions such as the people we have as friends and such. She started and still befriends stereotypically bad people, the kind that do drugs, smoke underage, irresponsible... the typical "rebellious" teenager these days. She also dates d0uchebags, which I unsuccessfully have tried to talk her out of (I'm protective, I love her to death as a friend). I'm the complete opposite when it comes to friends, I'm strongly against such things, which inevitably causes us to argue. Anyways to the point, despite our arguments she always comes back to me after we cut off connections to each other which leads me to believe she still has a thing for me she can't admit. Please don't tell me I'm imagining things, I'm pretty confident based off events in the time we have known each other that she still likes me more than a friend a bit. My question to you is, would you date a guy that is the total opposite to you as far as socializing? She is more the partier, likes to go to beaches and "wild" roadtrips with friends whereas I'm more reserved, against smoking/drugs (as far as I know she only does those socially not daily) and prefer to be one-on-one with a girlfriend. Normally I wouldn't even date someone that touches substances like that, but she somehow is an exception to me, just something about her I can't describe. Some of her friends are cool, but they aren't the ones that she hangs out with as often as the "bad" ones. I don't think I can morally associate with her "bad" friends, they do something I feel strongly about so I'm not sure how we would be able to hangout given our differences. Can it work for two people to be totally opposite socially? Just looking for opinions on what YOU would do, not what you think I should do. Thanks for reading!